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The Missing Element

 

Why Positive Thinking and Affirmations Aren't Enough

 

Unless you've taken into consideration the missing element required for successful manifestation you'll never experience true long-term success. 

I'll cut right to the core of the issue of why so many people visualize and affirm and even send prayers of thanks to the Universe all day long and still don't get the long term results they're seeking. 

The reason "canned" tapes, videos, CD's, DVD's and other recorded programs rarely work is because they lack the human interaction necessary to identify and eliminate self-defeating mental scripts. 

Some years ago I started a small publishing business out of my home by writing first one book that technically failed in the market place and then another book, Mind Over Money that became a huge hit. 

By the second year my tiny home-based business was grossing over $200,000 and over $350,000 by the third year. I thought I had it made! 

I bought a big house in the country, got some horses and promptly began a spiral into years of struggle and failure. What the hell happened? 

In my years of working with people I've heard similar stories like the poor orphaned boy from Pakistan who excelled in school. Teachers and mentors arranged for scholarships to get him into college in the U.S. Once in the United States he worked at a printing press while studying to be an engineer. After graduation he started a company and grew it into a multimillion dollar international firm. He traveled all over the world and had several offices and a million dollar line of credit. He had investments in real estate. He was "rich". 

Then, something went horribly wrong. Today, he's barely surviving. He has debilitating diseases and no income, no health insurance, no job. He's one step from being homeless.

What the heck happened? 

For me, and perhaps for the individual and friend, above, what happened was an unconscious, gradual realignment of the psyche to bring it into accord with powerful, hidden scripts. 

All of us have a Mental Operating System or MOS. It functions in the background just like Windows 95 (OK, yours may be Vista), and like Windows 95 it has built-in flaws that cause it to crash every now and then. 

For some people these scripts lead to addictions, abusive behavior, self-destructive behavior and frequent "crashes". For others, the force of the ego is strong enough to keep these self-defeating scripts in-check, at least for long enough to get a glimpse of the desired goal. But, then, like a bad virus, the script comes back into play. Long held destructive beliefs and attitudes re-impose their faulty mode of operating on our lives and presto…all we've worked for disappears almost overnight. 

How To Identify Self-Defeating Scripts and Replace Them With Powerful, Life-Enhancing Beliefs, Habits and Behaviors. 

If you've been on a journey of self-improvement and have purchased lots of self-improvement programs and perhaps even seen a psychologist or clinical social worker for "therapy" and your life is not what you want it to be consider this. 

The only effective way to cleanse your MOS of self-defeating scripts is to undergo intensive coaching sessions from someone who has mastered the process. Simply reading books or listening to tapes and CD's won't work. 

In my coaching practice I employ several powerful tools to accomplish this task easily and permanently. The first tool I use is kinesiologic testing. This is a powerful technique to identify maladaptive scripts. It works equally well to show you what replacement scripts have the power to change your life for the better. More about this later. 

The next powerful tool is a mental reprogramming system called "triggers". This process is a bit like brain surgery except that you are completely in control, there is neither pain nor actual surgery at all. 

Nevertheless, a trained hypnotherapist, your manifestation coach, "operates" on your Mental Operating System by locating faulty scripts that account for failure. Then, the coach builds a powerful trigger while you are in a deep state of relaxation (hypnosis). 

The trigger is designed to override the faulty script on cue by replacing it with a more powerful and highly effective positive script. Under hypnosis you are taught to be aware whenever the faulty script starts to play. For example, people often run parental tapes through their mind all during the day. Examples are: "that was stupid!", "I'll never get their on time, I'm always late", you're not good enough for her…she's way out of my league".

 

Examples of action oriented scripts include but aren't limited to:

  1. Reacting with a hair trigger temper to the actions or words of others. You have an overly developed defense mechanism script that fires almost without provocation!

  2. Procrastination. The more pressure to complete the task the slower you go.

  3. Tardiness. Something inside you always finds some last minute thing that must be done before you leave for an appointment. You are always late but with an excuse.

  4. Muddled thinking, lack of decision making ability. You may have met people who make choosing a brand of beer an intensive, agonizing process…every single time they order.

  5. Selecting partners who are subtly abusive and demeaning to you. You ditch one after the abuse gets worse only to find your next partner is even more abusive.

  6. Success sabotage. You've worked hard and seen some progress. Now you decide to take on a business partner without checking him out. He steals your money or runs your business into the ground. You blame him…wrong! Blame your bad script (yourself).

  7. Self-destructive reactions to stress. Stress affects everyone. It is how you deal with it that determines whether it can empower you or cause you to self-destruct. Which of these methods of stress relief test as anabolic meaning to build-up or enhance your strength?

    1. Taking your dog for a walk.   Anabolic

    2. Having just three drinks after work with friends. Catabolic

    3. Jogging. Anabolic

    4. Listening to gangster rap music at full volume. Catabolic

    5. Meditating. Anabolic

    6. Watching the news, then your favorite television show. Catabolic

    7. Playing outside with your kids (or someone else's kids). Anabolic

 

Once these triggers are implanted during hypnosis you will instantly become aware of self-defeating thoughts, attitudes and behaviors. The instant you become aware you fire your trigger, the one that was built for you under hypnosis. 

Your new, positive and highly effective replacement script literally overrides the old faulty script. Surprisingly, the process of totally wiping out negative scripts is quite rapid! Clients have experienced remarkable changes in anywhere from a single session to a month. 

All it takes is several "firings" of your trigger and your subconscious mind does the rest. It quickly grasps that there is a new script that has overwritten the old faulty one. Pretty soon, the traces of the old script vanish. 

It is this process that makes total transformation permanent so that when you manifest something you've always dreamed of having in your life it remains part of your life. 

Have you heard the stories of entrepreneurs who've made and lost fortunes over and over again during their lifetime? Faulty scripts are their problem. Replace them and the good scripts that brought them fortune and success in all its guises will continue to work effectively but the bad scripts that cause them to bet the farm and lose everything will be eliminated. In their place a positive script might be implanted that causes the person to invest and diversify their wealth.

 

About the Author

This article is an excerpt from Spiritual Power now being written by David Davies. Reprint rights for this article are freely granted with prior written permission of the author so long as the article is published exactly as written including the "About the Author" section.

David Davies operates Manifest Dreams Life Coaching Center practicing in Wiscasset, Maine.

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