How To Fix Most Common Child Behavior Problems In 30 Days Or Less

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The Key Principle of Effective Parenting

To become an effective parent you need to base your actions and attitudes on the principle that resolution occurs not by attacking the negative but by fostering the positive., Adapted from Power vs. Force by Dr. David Hawkins, p. 169

Core Concepts For Raising Children Who Are Well Behaved

You will attain best results when:

You clearly define your expectations to your children.

You learn to communicate your expectations in the best way to get the desired response.

You assist your children in setting limits and achieving goals.

You assist your children in finding appropriate alternative responses to misbehavior.

Your children participate with parents in defining consequences and rewards.

You consistently enforce consequences for "misguided" behavior and reward good behavior.

When you keep these core concepts in mind you empower your child to take responsibility and "own" their behavior and the outcome of their behavior, good or bad. I call this "responsibility based parenting".

David Davies

The 5 Minute Makeover Tool Kit is the most powerful behavior management tool available for transforming your child's behavior to eliminate these common child behavior problems:

defiance and back talk

cursing and screaming

temper tantrums

blaming others

refusal to take responsibility and initiative

manipulative behavior

lying

abusive and threatening behaviors, fighting

disrespectful and hurtful attitudes and language

refusal to listen and pay attention

refusal to respond or obey when you ask your child to do something

refusal to do homework

refusal to clean bedroom

refusal to do chores when asked

chronic tardiness, procrastination and truancy

If your child has ADD or ADHD (attention and focus challenges) you'll be glad to know that there are many tools to help you manage ADD and ADHD and focus problems in general.

AGE RANGE: This program works effectively for children ranging in age from 4-5 years old right through the tough teen adolescent rebellion years (13 -22 years old).

ear Parents,

Let me speak frankly.

In my years of practice I rarely encountered a child that I couldn't relate to. As strange as it may seem, with many of the children who were the most unruly I never observed a single "bad" behavior during the many hours I spent with the child. Meanwhile, many of the parents of these unruly children complained of constant issues with their children. What I observed was that many parents were prone to blame their child when they themselves were unknowingly prompting bad behavior in their own child!

You might ask "why"? Part of the reason is simply because many young parents simply never learned how to be an effective parent. Often, parents today simply pass along the parenting style of their own parents because they don't know any other way.

I've worked with every type of individual since I was 21 years old including juvenile delinquents, neglected children and even adults. So, I've simply learned what works. While many parents tend to get all sentimental and emotional I'm usually matter of fact. In my practice I rarely displayed anger, nor did I employ guilt trips or any kind of physical consequences like spankings. What I did offer was just clear and certain discipline balanced by praise, humor and one-to-one communication.

But, children learn to push their parent's "buttons" and test their limits. They know how to get their attention (mostly negative). They quickly learn how to manipulate their parents to get what they need or just want.

So, if your parenting style may leave something to be desired I would first recommend taking my free Parenting Styles Quiz. You'll quickly discover how your parenting skills compare with those of other parents. You'll see how some parenting techniques actually reinforce disrespectful and unruly behavior.

And, chances are, based on my years of observing parents (and kids) in action, you may need to re-tune and optimize your own parenting techniques so that you become a more effective parent.

Please understand this is not a criticism of you as a parent. I just need you to realize that if you continue to do what you've always been doing and make no changes in yourself you'll most likely continue to experience behavior issues with your children.

How To Handle The Challenges of a Child With ADHD

If your child has ADD or ADHD (attention and focus challenges or hyperactivity disorder) you'll be glad to know that there are many tools to help you manage ADD and ADHD and focus problems in general. I'll give you specific tips to reprogram your child's behavior by building the habit of attention.

AGE RANGE: This program works effectively for children ranging in age from 4-5 years old right through the tough teen adolescent rebellion years and beyond (13 -22 years old). Believe it or not I actually had one woman use these techniques to manage and improve her husband's immature and irresponsible behavior! But, that's not what it was designed to do.

Actions Speak Louder Than Words

TheTotal Makeover provides you with your own personal action plan based on a near exact profile of your child's attitudes and behaviors. Follow the action plan and you'll see improved behavior almost instantly.

If you've been experiencing defiance, back talk, disrespectful behavior or your child won't respond to repeated requests when asked to do something you need to try my 24 techniques in your home under my 60 day risk free trial offer. Best of all, you'll receive a more effective, simpler to use program than the James Lehman program, The Total Transformation� for less than a third the cost making The Total Makeover Parenting System� the wise choice for families in today's poor economy.

Prove to yourself that your child can become the child you've dreamed of: Enjoy being the proud parent of a child who is responsible, polite, respectful, happy and well adjusted. Think of how proud you'll feel to hear teachers, relatives, friends and neighbors remark on how well behaved your children are.

The Total Makeover Parenting System is based on my 25 years experience working with delinquent, defiant, rude and out of control children and adults in a wide variety of settings. Here's a brief profile:

The author, David Davies, is a certified Behavior Health Professional who has worked as a Probation Officer and mentor helping families transform out of control children and adults in Tennessee, California and Maine. Dave has worked with families and their children in their homes and in the Memphis Shelby County Juvenile Court, The San Diego County Probation Department as well as in residential treatment agencies as a facilitator and trainer to resolve the most persistent and obnoxious behavioral issues.

As a Probation Officer working with adult offenders in the California corrections facilities Dave taught inmates techniques to own their behavior and to take responsibility for where they are in life.

During his 25+ years working with children and adults with disabilities and behavioral issues Dave has helped families cope with children with ADD, ADHD, Autism, Asperger's, ODD (oppositional defiant disorder), PTSD (post traumatic stress syndrome), anxiety, depression and the common "BRAT" syndrome - (plain old defiant and out of control kids).

Mr. Davies' simple but highly effective techniques allow you to build rapport, gain respect and communicate effectively so that your child will listen, respond and begin to take responsibility. Dave will show you how to cause your child to want to please you to earn your respect and praise.

Best of all you'll discover that the program itself is remarkably easy to use. It's a very powerful, simple to follow step-by-step system that you can use in your home to literally do a total makeover of your child's behavior and attitudes, five minutes at a time. Allow yourself a moment to imagine the pride you'll feel the first time you witness your child beginning to show initiative, and who acts responsibly and speaks and acts respectfully and with kindness towards others.

Don't Give Up On Your Kids -

Use My Powerful, Tested and Proven Parenting Strategies to Transform Your Children's Behavior Before It's Too Late!

What You'll Receive

My Total Makeover Parenting Program includes:

The Five Minute Makeover Tool Kit with 24 audio lessons on 4 CD's

You'll learn 24 precise strategies to change your child's attitude and behavior and to build communication, trust, and an attitude of caring and accepting responsibility for his or herself.

Behavior Chart

One of the tools that I believe you'll find most useful is The Total Makeover Behavior Chart. The Behavior Chart identifies the ten most common "ineffective" parenting styles and the corresponding misbehavior that each parenting approach triggers. I've even set up the program on the Web at www.ParentalQuiz.com

You'll be able to take a simple self-assessment quiz to identify your predominant parenting style. Once you know your parenting style you can see exactly how your parenting style impacts your children's behavior. You'll learn precisely how to get results by making a few simple changes.

The Samurai Code Better Behavior Wheel.

This powerful behavior modification software may be all you need to bring about excellent behavior. Just enter your child into the program and define the problem behaviors you need your child to work on. When your child misbehaves he must spin the wheel to find out the consequences of his bad behavior. He loses points every time he misbehaves but he is rewarded points and special rewards at the end of the week for good behavior. Works Like Magic!

The Action Plan

This workbook contains the exact words to say and actions you must take for just about any behavioral situation you are likely to encounter. Of equal importance is the extensive list of age appropriate consequences and rewards proven to motivate children. You'll love the clear cut and easy to follow Action Plan Dave has put in place!

Each lesson is only1-3 pages in length and contains nothing but "meat". There is a very real problem these days with "information overload" where the reader simply has too much information to absorb. Each lesson is purposefully brief (but thorough!) so you can quickly read it and put it into practice.
You can listen to the audio CDs while commuting to work. Then, follow along with the action steps in the workbook.
Includes An Assignment To Complete.

Each lesson will give you an assignment to complete at the close of the information. Instead of giving you the usual "this is what I've done" stuff, I'm giving you "this is what you do" stuff! You'll have some easy to implement action steps to complete before moving on.

Peace of Mind.

Perhaps what you'll value most is the new atmosphere of peace, harmony and tranquility you'll experience in your home once you begin using the program.

Having well mannered, respectful and responsible children is truly an investment in your own peace of mind as well as for the long term happiness and success of your children.

If you were to send your pet to obedience classes it could cost you as much as $500, $800 or more to train your dog. But, the fact is training your child to be a responsible and caring young adult is far more important and costs a lot less!

Molding The Character of Your Child Is The Most Important Job You'll Ever Do!

If it became necessary to send your child to a counselor or therapist it could cost you thousands of dollars plus the time and effort to attend weekly sessions. Today's smart children are adept at manipulating therapists ;-). It is not uncommon to have an abusive child act like a little angel at the therapist's office while the therapist consumes your time and money talking about how your child feels.

Your child may leave the counselor's office feeling great only to return home to resume doing the exact same obnoxious behaviors that convinced you to see a therapist in the first place!

But, real change can only occur at home and it is your responsibility as a parent to expect appropriate, respectful behavior not just once in awhile but all the time. Real change only occurs where the "rubber meets the road" which is just my way of saying that change takes place when your relationship and communication with your child are both appropriate and effective.

The action you take today can define the success of your child now and throughout his or her adult life. There are many misguided adults who continue to blame others for their failures; who've never learned that they are the only one responsible for their success or failures in life.

If you are at your wit's end and fed up with your child's obnoxious behavior now is the time to take action BEFORE IT'S TOO LATE!

Discover the nine magic words that eliminate your child's disrespectful, rude and obnoxious behavior...

Isn't it time to stop the abuse? If your child is rude and disrespectful it's time to take action before it's too late!

I've spoken to many parents who've buried their head in the sand for way too long and only call after their child has become pregnant, gotten hooked on drugs or even ended up in jail. It is terribly sad for me to witness these parenting failures that could easily have been avoided!

Don't buy into the craze to label and medicate our kids! I believe that most behavior issues can be resolved with effective parenting and that drugged out over medicated children are not the answer.

What's It Worth To Have Responsible and Well Behaved Children?

If you were to send your dog to dog obedience classes you'll find that it costs around $500 and it's worth every penny. But, the fact is that parenting responsible children is critically important both to your happiness and to your child's future success in life. It is all about teaching a child to take responsibility for their actions.

I've slashed the price of my complete parent effectiveness audio course to a rock bottom price of just $149.90; and, if you value peace of mind it is an absolute bargain!

Note: For those who were considering ordering The Total Transformation by James Lehman:

I've thoroughly reviewed The Total Transformation by James Lehman and I can recommend it if you've got money to burn. This product has some good information in it. You'll find It gives a lot of pretty basic information in interview format. But, it does not include my parenting styles quiz, my Samurai Code Behavior Wheel software nor the in depth insight of someone who has vast experience working with troubled children and adults since 1970.

But, it is your choice...spend $299 for The Total Transformation or spend $149.90 (the best value) for The Total Makeover Parenting System. Either way, I wish you the best of luck!

David Davies

Your complete satisfaction is unconditionally guaranteed for a full 60 days or the price you paid for the System will be cheerfully refunded (less S&H). Your guarantee does not begin until your package is delivered.

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YOU'LL ALSO RECEIVE THESE SPECIAL BONUSES

These bonuses are yours to keep even if you decide to ask for a refund.

Bonus #1 You'll receive easy to follow instructions on a technique that will instantly and accurately show you if your child is telling the truth. And, no, it is not torture or anything in the least unpleasant. You won't find this technique revealed anywhere else unless you study kinesiology.

Bonus #2 Order before leaving this page to receive my special report "The 8 Most Risky Things Families Permit and Even Encourage That Could Harm Your Child". This shocking report reveals 8 commonly accepted practices that can contribute to ADD, obesity, depression, suicide, estrangement, poor study habits and contribute to violent behavior in children.

Remember, you can try out The Total Makeover program for a full thirty days from day of delivery. If you are not seeing the kind of results you were hoping for just give me a call for return instructions. Regardless of your final decision you may keep all bonuses including my Samurai Code Behavior Wheel software valued at $39.95 just for taking the time to check out my program.

Warm Regards,

David Davies

Behavioral Health Professional and Life Coach

P.S. If you live in Maine or care to visit this beautiful state Dave is offering an intensive three day Parenting Seminar & Retreat at a waterfront farm in Maine beginning in July 2010. Space is limited, so call now to reserve your cottage! My personal office number is 949-945-5417. Call between 9 AM and 4 PM E.S.T.

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*Click Here to Pay Just $23.90 S&H on my risk free trial offer

Details: Pay just $23.90 S&H to try out my complete Parenting System for a full thirty days. Use The Samurai Code Behavior Wheel and track the improvement in your child's behavior. Take the Parenting Styles Quiz to identify possible problem areas in your parenting skills. If you find the program helpful keep it and pay just three payments of $39.95 ea. and your first installment doesn't start until 30 days after receiving your package.

If, for any reason you are not thrilled with your new parenting tools, no hard feelings. In fact, you can keep The Samurai Code Behavior Wheel software (a $47 value) for your trouble. Just return the rest of the Total Makeover Parenting System postmarked within 60 days of receipt and you won't be billed. Shipping and handling fees are not refundable..

Mail Order: If you prefer you can mail your check or money order for $149.90 plus $23.90 shipping and handling fees (total of $173.80) to:

David Davies

Powergate Learning Systems

334 Lowell Town Road

Wiscasset, ME 04578

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